Thursday, April 22, 2010

* Love is not emotional dependence *



The word ‘LOVE’ is perhaps one of the most casually used terms in the English language – so much so that it has become an universal term for a whole variety of very different emotions! 

There is one thing we all agree on – like food,cloths and a roof, LOVE is also a necessity, and without it, the world is but a dry empty shell of a place.

Can we imagine a world without LOVE ? I think, not at all.

On the other hand, it is a word we very easily twist around to our own purposes to justify our emotional dependence on a person. 

If we can learn to distinguish love from emotional dependence and put this distinction into practice, then we make life more beautiful not only for us, but for everyone we come into contact with.

"LOVE" is a beautiful word with a beautiful meaning. A word "UNCONDITIONAL" increases its beauty many folds.

Lets try and live our "LOVE" unconditionally........!



THNX

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

**Deciding Consciously**


 our thoughts help us to take our decision and decisions only compel us to act in that direction..
All the three phases are equally important..


Jssst a few questions to ourselves can make a lot of difference to our decisions and actions we take regarding anything in our life.. 


** Shall i be taking the same decision if i would have been on other side of the story?
** living my decision whole heartedly and watching the comfortability of it with my very own conscious.
** M i feeling relaxed or comfortable with in my deep conscious?
** If no, can i justify my decision to my own self?
** if yes, proceed.


I m in good habit of performing this practice on my own self... so wanted to share with u all..


As a human, we can never be perfect, so we have to be ready for all the outcomes,whether they are positive or negative, they are ours.
we should welcome them  all in exactly the same manner....


THANX