*$oul mate*

The most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increases...

no conditions, no boundations..no external forces or resourses are required to make it happen or break it......                                                                                                                                                                                                This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is the most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it...

It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all the things in life, bringing them eternally together forever.....!!!!

"LIVE UR FEAR "

Fear is poison to intelligence. How can we be intelligent if there is fear?

The fear will go on pulling us in different ways.

It will not allow us to be courageous, it will not allow you to step into the unknown,

It will not allow us to become an adventurer, it will not allow you to leave the fold, the crowd.

It will not allow us to become independent, free; it will keep you a slave. And we are slaves in so many ways.

Our slavery is multidimensional and the fear is the root cause of it.

Just live your fear, Do what you are fear the most...

As far as i know, there should only one fear...that is of doing wrongs cause we have to be answerable for this.  For that matter definition of RIGHT OR WRONG should be very clear to us.. actually free from slavery......

 Are we aware enough..?????????

@.m..: ****** ME AND MY GOD *******

@.m..: ****** ME AND MY GOD *******: I do believe in GOD, but my prayers don't have to be recited in a temple. I feel that GOD is everywhere and specially in my heart. I don't g...

****** ME AND MY GOD *******

I do believe in GOD, but my prayers don't have to be recited in a temple. I feel that GOD is everywhere and specially in my heart. I don't go to temple or gurudwara often, cause i don't think i have to rush to the temple t find solution of the problems.

Having a true heart is crucial, i think if one is transparent from the heart, GOD will surely fulfills the wishes if we truly deserve them.

I feel, i have always gotten, whatever i have asked from GOD.....sometimes in an hour,a day, a month or even years, and it make me feel that GOD is there and watching over me.


I wouldn't say, i m quite a religious person.As for me, religion is an unseen belief, a belief in GOD's existence..
for me, all the religions are just the ways to feel the existence of Almighty, the PARAM-ATMA..... The SUPREME  SOUL.
Our SOUL is also a tiny part of that SUPREME  SOUL...,, so HE is with in me, with me all the times, hence i dont feel need to search HIM.....to find HIM.....to remember HIM, cause i can never forget HIM.....how can i????? HE is the reason of my existence...............

i m more of a spiritual person, as i believe that we humans are very lucky to have been selected by PARAM-ATMA for this birth to fulfill the purpose, we have been sent for....so i like to concentrate more on the righteousness of the path, with all the truthfulness, fearlessness and taking care of each of HIS command..
the same way, a student gets awarded when he/she performs well in the class following all the rules and regulations.................................and not merely by pleasing the teachers in all possible manner....

vo Lamhe............vo baaten......

VO LAMHE........... VO BAATEN........

it was a beautiful day, which i have lived quite up to my own self.....
The very start of the day was a beautiful sight outside, the very first work of my day, reaching out to balcony, it was drizzling....

"WOOWW".. thats what comes automatically...
and i tried to hold as many drops as possible in my palms... feeling those drops on my face and looking upwards to see them racing down to meet earth and give away all the love sent by the sky.... was so satisfying and fullfilling..

Gulmohar tree in front of my house is all set to welcome "saavan season" and beautiful red flowers are all set to blossom to the fullest at the branches....
New small green leaves, dancing with air were trying to hold as many water drops as they can....
everything was soo perfect and beautifull.........
while sipping my cup of tea, enjoying that awesome weather, with my own favorite music on the play were adding tremendous soulful effects to it....
So many good happy memories of the dear ones, unforgetable moments obviously had to make a scroll..
 It was a beautiful start of the day, which i knew, i m going to live my way.......

THANK GOD FOR SO MANY GOOD THINGS AROUND.......

* Do Change.... but for betterment only*

We never need to prove what we are, but because of our sincerity our actions become an expression of our specialiites.                                                                                                                                                                              

Just like a diamond never needs to prove but its sparkle is its proof of the value it has. When we work with our specialities with sincerity, then we will never give excuses or have expectations, but use every situation as an opportunity to express our qualities.  

when we perform our role with sincerety, we feel so complete that dont even bother for others reactions, we know, we have played our role well to the situation and the people in our life..

If our close ones really value us, for what we are.. they will prefer to be with us even at oodds..

They will love for what we are and not for what they wanted us to be..

So be urself... Do change, but for betterment....

** Hume Aadat hai **

Mushkilon se kahiye, thoda kad bada len,

Humen aadat hai, kandha milane ki......                                                                                    

muskurane se jee kahan bharta hai,

hume aadat hai thahake lagane ki.....

dhoke se kahiye, humare kareeb na aaye,

hume aadat hai vishvaas jeet jaane ki.....

dosti humari samajh se bahar hai,

hume aadat hai sath nibhane ki.....

intezaar kahan karte hai hum manzilon ka,

hume aadat hai khud ki manzile banane ki.....

saahil ke sahare ki hume aas nahi,

hume aadat hai khud sahara ban jaane ki.....

Rab ki di zindagi ki dil-o-jaan se kadar hai.....

hume aadat hai, usse dil se apnane ki.......

Nurture the child within........

Irrespective of all ages, genders, our roles in life, there is a little child within who needs love and acceptance. If you’re a woman, no matter how self-reliant you are, you have a little girl who’s very tender and needs help. If you’re a man, no matter how macho you are, you still have a little boy inside who craves warmth and affection.
There is a parent inside each of us, as well as a child. And most of the time, the parent scolds the child—almost nonstop! If we listen to our inner dialogue, we can hear the scolding. We can hear the parent tell the child what it is doing wrong or how it is not good enough. We need to allow our inner parent to become more nurturing to our inner child.
We need to communicate with our inner child and let it know that we accept that we, sometimes have doone all the stupid & silly things. It will help us in maintaining a compatibility and synchronization within us, which keep us clear and truthful to ours own self, and we project to the outer world.
 In the privacy of our own minds we can make new choices and think new thoughts. Thoughts of forgiveness as a parent and selfless love as a child, which will automatically open all pathways, and the Universe will support us in our efforts.

"True LOVE is our only choice"

.."True LOVE is our only choice"..

Of all the decisions a person can possibly make, only a decision for love can stand!

The truth is, the only decision which can possibly be a permanent decision is the decision for true love. Thus, all choices which are not choices for true love are temporary and destined to be revised in the light of truth.

Every priority that opposes or supercedes love will someday be abandoned. Such is the way of the heart, and the way of the heart is the ultimate destiny of all -- because nothing less will do. You are spirit, you are not (lower) mind. You simply cannot get behind anything other than an absolute decision to make love the ultimate priority in all your choices. Since no lesser decision can satisfy you, no lesser decision can stand and if unknowingly you do it... you will be definately regreting it at any time of life.

Finally, make no mistake: a choice for true love is the only choice to recognize the divinity, the core reason behind every action and reaction in this universe.

" WHO M I "

To stand alone like a lion, and not to be a sheep in the crowd, is the greatest courage in existence. Very few people are able to get out of the mass psychology, of the collective mind. The collective mind gives a certain sense of false security. Naturally it gives you the idea that so many people—there are five billion people on the planet—cannot be wrong. Naturally there is no need for you to search for the truth individually. All these people have discovered it; it is easier and cheaper just to follow them…just to be a Christian, or a Hindu, or a Mohammedan, or a communist. It is very easy when a crowd surrounds you to feel warm and cozy. ~OSHO♥

We feel so comfortable being on majority side, that we don't even bother, what we are doing is truly in sense of our beings..
and so one by one, we have made a huge crowd  of collective minds,, who jussst live their life to the fullest of convenience and comfort without putting  in any effort to recognize their own individuality and qualities, GOD has sent them with...

truthful begining for the circle of life*********

Though we start each phase of our life with new begining, new perception, all together new perspective, and accumulate our so called experiances which depends on how we have taken that particular task, how we have understood it and reacted. All this do influence our decisions making abilities....
Still..... it is a fact that................................................................

Life is a circle. What ever we do, in one form or another comes back to us.
decisions taken, Actions performed with true and pure intentions always ends up giving us truely, what we wished...
Somehow, if we wont be reaching our goal or getting what we wished inspite of true dedication means we are not aware of other side of the coin, and there is something, which is not meant for us..
efforts we can put in are..... true intention, 100% dedication, good and psitive approach strong foundation to start with...
Anything which initiates with falsehood is difficult to manage, to maintain or even sustain... Falsehood or fakes are lifeless, they have quite a short age for survival. they can blindfold us for a very very short span of time.. very soon, they shatter and die as we move ahead...
if begining is based on falsehood, none of our intentions and dedications can be true towards it and then how can we expect to get the totality of our wishful aim.........
No Way At All............

***** Heyyy $hona, YOU Have Been Tagged ******

Life has come to her in a very surprising way...

things were so clear to tell, why they happened....

may be we dont understand them while crossing that particular

phase, but after sometime, as we lk back, it seems...

there was nothing which could take its place in more better way...

she started living her life as it was coming to her....
irrespective of the facts of should or shouldn't...
go living it and  it will keep on unfolding itself with its due course of time,
teaching us true lessons of life.....

with all the pain, uncertainities and unfavourable conditions, as we call it,
we get what we destined..... no reason at all can make you devoid of it.....

as almighty is so keen on presenting her the only love of her life........ sometimes
hard to believe her luck......., she has no words but only tears to thank Almighty for all the blessings in this form........
and now its not a saying but truth of her life...............

that, if we are confused at any stage of life and things just slipping off our hands in that situation....

just have to be devotedly dedicated....and leave it watching what is there in store for us....................

if it is ours........ it will definitely come to us, at all cost .......

GOD  IS  GONNA TAG  YOU  FOR  THAT  GODLY  GIFT................

** LOVE is in the air **

BLESSED

If there is anything in this universe that can nt be defined..... It is LOVE... Such an eternal Topic to discuss or comment..

It exist everywhere in one form or other...... with mom, with dad, spouse,son, daughter...... relatives.. and soo on...... sometimes we feel more blessed or comfortable with a person, who is not related but it can be a true close friend, a lover, a guardian,....well wisher...................

Some intellectuals have found that major three forms of LOVEs can be -----------

RAJSIK LOVE --------- The LOVE combined with feverishness and desire to get something in return......

TAMSIK LOVE -------- The LOVE which destroys everything , for personnel sake..... ( we have examples of killings of lovers out of obsessiveness... honour killings....nd more)

All these LOVEs will diminish some day. their effect keeps fading each day., it seems more of a duty.

Initially, it seems to be quite attractive but with time, as we go closer and becomes more aware of real or truth of this, we don't feel like knowing more or going more closer, we feel lack of  interest, even we don't have topics to talk, and in short span, it seems to be enough........

SATVIK LOVE -------- This kind of LOVE does not expect anything from others... its only giving without expecting anything....... Most of the times, its one sided LOVE and accept everything comes in way as it is... ( kind of  meera ji's  love for shri krishna.).

*** The most fine and the pure form of love should be infinite, which never diminishes with time.

Inspite of all the distances, unfavourable conditions, it will never ever fade in itself.

With this kind of love, attraction increases many folds, everytime we go closer.

As we become aware of real and truth, LOVE becomes more charming, more respectful.

There is no expectations, no duties, no responsibilities imposed by any one, but only  our own internal true wish to do all with out any pressure from outside world.

If required, only this kind of love can make Good,positive and Progressive changes in us,  because we are in the aura of a wise personality, where we can never be bored, but only rise in all aspects.. We feel charged to live up the life, we feel encouraged, fearless and free.... it is a freedom from all bonds, but it binds us with our soul.

Every moment we spent, we feel the depth of togetherness is getting even more. 

we feel more stable, and tuned to our own self......

This kind of love never breaks down,it does not demand anything. it accepts us as we are, it never changes us, but we change our self  with our own good will..

Kind of Limitless LOVE........ SPIRITUAL  ONE

BECAUSE DEEP INSIDE,  WE  ALL  KNOW  THAT  LOVE  IS  NOT  ONLY  AN  EMOTION  BUT IT  IS  OUR  EXISTENCE.

 

WHY..?????????

Why... Why ,  every other day, i have to go through a live story of  liking, care, affection,commitments, understanding, compatability and suddenly after some months or say years, its only sadness, cryings, hurts, pains, deceivings, loneliness............................ why???????????

What went wrong? where went Wrong? Who was to Blame?
Is any damn reason good enough to justify this brutal end of such  beautiful feelings?
Being one of the most intelligent and mindful species in this universe... are we doing proper justice to our existence??